Clarifying the Discussion
Tony Jones has a followup post on a workshop he facilitated at the National Youth Workers Convention. It's always good to see conversations go beyond the workshop, especially when it yields reconciliation.
Tony Jones has a followup post on a workshop he facilitated at the National Youth Workers Convention. It's always good to see conversations go beyond the workshop, especially when it yields reconciliation.
Ok, it's a few days old now, I've done a very bad job of keeping up with my RSS feeds. Anyway, Scott resonates.
Been a bit crazy lately. The holiday weekend was good for shutting out the world for a couple days, but church on Saturday night and nursery duty on Sunday morning meant that our weekend was busier than usual. Going back to work today wasn't much fun. Throw in the fact that I've been fighting a cold for two weeks now, and that made getting up this morning all the more fun. Fortunately, it was a balmy 55 degrees this morning, so walking out the door didn't feel so bad. Of course, its now 40 degrees and rainy, so the warm temps were pretty short lived. Ah well, it is November after all.
One more link to Jeremy. Christmas is about giving what we've received, not what we've bought.
Jeremy had a great time too! I've got someone ready to go with us next year. There'll probably be more too. Lunch with Jeremy was outstanding. Meeting him live and in person made the whole trip worthwhile, though there were a lot of other pieces that also made it worthwhile!
Nathan is watching the outtakes from the VeggieTales Jonah Movie. I can hear him sitting in the room laughing. It brings joy to my heart to hear a four year old laugh at humor completely on his own. I hope and pray that he always has a good and appropriate sense of humor. It will keep his heart healthy.
Rudy's post should be generating more discussion than its getting, perhaps its getting a lot of links like this one. From my teaching days, I would be very interested in seeing this research played out a little more.
We've finally arrived at home. We finally got to hang out with Jeremy for a while. We set up a few times, but we always ran out of time. Today we were able to break away for lunch and talk like we were old friends who'd known each other for years. Never mind that we've only known each other as long as he's been blogging. He invited us to put together a group for a trip out to hang with the GenXcel folks for a week. They've got a lot of great stuff going on, including some of the toughest people groups for ministries to work with right in their neighborhood.
Every time we attend CCDA, we hear someone who gives the re-focus message. It's happening right now. We're listening to Richard Townsell of Lawndale Community Church right now. He's preaching from Micah 6:8. He's asking the crowd WWFT (What Would the Funders Think). And why is that our priority?!? We have to change how we raise money! The current system requires us to find a really hard story (especially if its a child) and use it to raise money. Does the hard luck story change? No, but we get a check and the donor gets a tax write off. Stop denigrating people in the effort to raise money. Its easier to get $20,000 from a bank than $5,000 from a suburban church if we don't pimp the poor for cash.
I just walked into Jeremy's blogging workshop a little late. Sbarro's was good, as was the conversation with the Henkel's, but it led me to be running behind. Jeremy's talking about how so many of the inner city kids he works with have blogs. The digital divide is disappearing or gone. That is a good and bad thing. The kids are posting stuff that many people would find shocking. How do we deal with and educate kids regarding that. I'm going to tune in a little better now.
We arrived at CCDA at 10 AM, just as we expected...except that we forgot that there was a time change (Indiana really needs to change clocks like the rest of the country so people know what time it is when they enter Indiana). The first day has been great. Jill and I went our separate ways to workshops, Jill to an Emerging Leaders workshop, and I went to a fundraising workshop. Both were excellent. Jeremy and Rudy led Jill's workshop. The were outstanding. She's got a lot of feedback for Borderlands. Look out Jason!!
Actually, its just a dusting, so it doesn't really count as a real snow, but there was a layer of the white stuff on our picnic table and other outdoor stuff. Light flurries are expected throughout the morning, but we'll see if that actually happens. The boys were excited though. They always love to see snow on the ground. They'd rather have enough to go play in it, though.
I gave up on Google pretty quickly, and went over to mapquest.com. It doesn't always point one to the exact location, but it'll get me close enough. This map shows my results. Let's face it, driving through Chicago during rush hour tomorrow doesn't sound like the fastest way to get to Indy. I'm guessing I-39 to I-74 will work out a bit faster (by an hour or so!).
In preparing to drive to Indy tomorrow, I typed "Rockford, IL to Indianapolis, IN" into Google. The number 6 result? BANKRUPTCY ATTORNEYS!! What on earth do bankruptcy attorneys have to do with traveling to Indianapolis?!?
From the "Truth Hurts, So We'll Try to Manipulate Our Way Around It" category, Microsoft is now asking the Department of Justice to intervene on their behalf in the ruling handed down last year by the European Commission. Uh, yeah, that'll help. The DOJ already won a case against Microsoft for the EXACT SAME THING, but allowed them to get b(u)y with a slap on the wrist. The EC isn't quite so nice, so now Microsoft wants the DOJ to intervene. I'd guess that the US government is so highly respected in Europe that they'll just roll over for the Microsoft-DOJ team. Yeah, right. Why can't Microsoft just pay up and move on, everyone knows their guilty anyway.
I had a chance to sit and watch an entire football game today!! Our local games are always the Bears, and that was definitely worth watching today!! There aren't very many stadiums where the weather can determine how the game is played, but Soldier Field is one, and today the wind was amazing. Of course, we had the same winds here, though not quite as strong. Vasher's 108 yard run back was awesome. Great team play. Watching Urlacher take charge and give him directions, while still keeping up and then passing him to make the final block was to watch a true team player. He remembered that the goal was to get Vasher into the end zone, and it was obvious that he was going to make that happen. If there is a sportscaster in the US that does not show that tonight on the evening news, they should be fired. That single play showed the power of the wind, smart play, a record setting play, and smart football on the part of the Bears. It single-handedly turned the game around, making it a 7-3 game rather than a 6-0 game at halftime. Overall, the game was the perfect example of why the NFC North is called the "Black and Blue" division.
Jeremy has posted the answer to the Question of the Week regarding poor drug dealers. Freakonomics took a serious look at the economics of the drug trade and came to some interesting conclusions. Check out Jeremy's post to see the results.
Cringley has expressed his opinion that the memos weren't "leaked," they were designed for public consumption, oh, and they show that Microsoft doesn't have any idea about how to address what is happening in their industry. Scary stuff if you're a Microsoft employee.
SmartMoney.com likes the Mac, as do the vast majority of people who use them! Can you name one computer company that gets higher ratings in all areas of hardware and software than Apple? (hint: Dell does not get better ratings than Apple, and while Dell's ratings have fallen, Apple's have remained extremely high)
Jeremy links to the Time Magazine interview with Steve Jobs. Jobs seems to understand things about design that others just never get. The folks over at Presentation Zen also see the difference. How many business leaders approach business from the perspective of Steve Jobs? Very few. As Jobs himself points out, that is definitely not how the leaders of car companies think! Mike Evangelist can at least point to one record company exec who gets it, but apparently he's rare.
I meant to link to this the other day. Michael issued an official apology to his family for becoming a full-time pastor. How many pastors' wives wished their husbands would do the same?
churchmarketingsucks has posted a brief review of the National Outreach Convention. Their take on it? People who were out of touch proved it. People who are doing church planting are putting a whole lot more thought into outreach. Ironically, they tended to lean heavily toward the emerging church thoughts.
Pat Robertson is at it again, big surprise. If he hasn't figured out how to keep his mouth shut by now, he probably won't. I figured that I'd run into quite a few responses amonst bloggers. I was right. I think the best was this one by Abner. I would also like to remind Pat that the natural disaster most likely to strike that area of PA will be the aftermath of a hurricane that would have hit VA Beach first. Sorry Pat, but you'll most likely get it first and worst.
There are ways for geeks to run three operating systems on one computer, but Apple may be bringing that mainstream, and no, I'm not talking virtual computing here. ComputerWorld takes a look at a new Apple patent that may make it as easy as a keystroke to switch from Mac OSX to Windows to Linux to ... Hey, maybe this will make Sven happy!
Jeremy linked over to a set of quotes that Tony is gathering. Among them is this:
Jesus did not intend His church merely to provide bigger and better amusement for bigger and more upscale audiences. His vision was of a church that would inject His light and life into a dark and dying world. So we had better take the vision of Jesus seriously, or we won't just be amusing ourselves to death. We'll be amusing people to hell. -Leighton Ford, author and speaker
"This is the American Dream. Work. Buy. Display. Repeat." C. S. Lewis
"If Jesus loved people like we do, he would have lived a long, prosperous life."
--- a quote by someone I don't know
From their conversation, Tony learned an astonishing amount about Honolulu's night life, for the
girls were discussing their night's work and their male clients. The girls were prostitutes.
Here's the rest of the story in Tony's own words:
I overheard the woman sitting beside me say, "Tomorrow's my birthday. I'm going to be
thirty-nine."
Her "friend" responded in a nasty tone, "So what do you want from me? A birthday party? What do you want? Ya want me to get you a cake and sing 'Happy Birthday'?"
"Come on!" said the woman sitting next to me. "Why do you have to be so mean? I was just telling you, that's all. Why do you have to put me down? I was just telling you it was my birthday. I don't want anything from you. I mean, why should you give me a birthday party? I've never had a birthday party in my whole life. Why should I have one now?"
When I heard that, I made a decision. I sat and waited until the women had left. Then I called
over the fat guy behind the counter and I asked him, "Do they come in here every night?"
"Yeah!" he answered.
"The one right next to me, does she come here every night?"
"Yeah," he said. "That's Agnes. Yeah, she comes in here every night. Why d'ya wanta know?"
"Because I heard her say that tomorrow is her birthday," I told him. "What do you say you and I do something about that? What do you think about us throwing a birthday party for her--right
here--tomorrow night?"
A cute smile slowly crossed his chubby cheeks and he answered with measured delight, "That's
great!"
"Look," I told him, "if it's okay with you, I'll get back here tomorrow morning about 2:30 and
decorate the place. I'll even get a birthday cake!"
"No way," said Harry (that was his name). "The birthday cake's my thing. I'll make the cake."
At 2:30 the next morning, I was back at the diner. I had picked up some crepe-paper decorations at the store and had made a sign out of big pieces of cardboard that read, "Happy Birthday, Agnes!" I decorated the diner from one end to the other. I had that diner looking good. The woman who did the cooking must have gotten the word out on the street, because by 3:15 every prostitute in Honolulu was in the place. It was wall-to-wall prostitutes ... and me!
At 3:30 on the dot, the door of the diner swung open and in came Agnes and her friend. I had
everybody ready (after all I was kind of the emcee of the affair), and when they came in we all
screamed, "Happy birthday!"
Never have I seen a person so flabbergasted ... so stunned ... so shaken. Her mouth fell open. Her legs seemed to buckle a bit. Her friend grabbed her arm to steady her. As she was led to sit on one of the stools along the counter, we all sang "Happy Birthday" to her.
As we came to the end of our singing with "Happy birthday, dear Agnes, happy birthday to you," her eyes moistened. When the birthday cake with all the candles on it was carried out, she lost it and just openly cried.
Harry gruffly mumbled, "Blow out the candles, Agnes! Come on! Blow out the candles! If you don't blow out the candles, I'm gonna hafta blow out the candles." And, after an endless few seconds, he did. Then he handed her a knife and told her, "Cut the cake, Agnes. Yo, Agnes, we all want some cake."
Agnes looked down at the cake. Then without taking her eyes off it, she slowly and softly said,
"Look, Harry, is it all right with you if I ...I mean, is it okay if I kind of ... want I want to
ask you is ... is it OK if keep the cake a little while? I mean, is it all right if we don't eat it
right away?"
Harry shrugged and answered, "Sure! It's okay. If you want to keep the cake, keep the cake. Take it home if you want to."
"Can I?" she asked. Then, looking at me, she said, "I live just down the street a couple of doors.
I want to take the cake home, OK? I'll be right back. Honest!" She got off the stool, picked up
the cake, and, carrying it like it was the Holy Grail, walked slowly toward the door.
As we all just stood there motionless, she left. When the door closed, there was a stunned silence in the place. Not knowing what else to do, I broke the silence by saying, "What do you say we pray?"
Looking back on it now, it seems more than strange for a sociologist to be leading a prayer
meeting with a bunch of prostitutes in a diner in Honolulu at 3:30 in the morning. But then it just felt like the right thing to do. I prayed for Agnes. I prayed for her salvation. I prayed that her life would be changed and that God would be good to her.
When I finished, Harry leaned over the counter and, with a trace of hostility in his voice, said,
"Hey! You never told me you were a preacher. What kind of church do you belong to?"
In one of those moments when just the right words came, I answered, "I belong to a church that
throws birthday parties for prostitutes at 3:30 in the morning."
Harry waited a moment and then almost sneered as he answered, "No, you don't. There's no church like that. If there was, I'd join it. I'd join a church like that!"
May our churches become the type of churches that would throw a birthday party for prostitutes at 3:30 in the morning, and may we all become the kind of Christian who would bring the cake!
Now there's actually public talk about Apple taking market share from Windows. From the article:
Hardly a week goes by that I don't hear from a friend or colleague with a monumental Windows problem. I tell them I'm glad to help, on one condition: Next time they buy a computer, they agree to consider a Macintosh.
November 7th is the 65th anniversary of the collapse of the Tacoma Narrows bridge. Our Folding Team has a little video thing of it in our team logo for the day, so head over to Team Mac OS X to check out the little video blip at the top of the page. It'll be up until about 9 PM central time on November 7th (when the Team changes out the day's logo for tomorrow's logo).
I've gone back to allowing anonymous comments, for better or worse. Of course, I can still delete them if necessary...
Rudy's got a post on school vouchers. Make sure you read the comments. I like Dave's idea, which means there's probably no way it would ever become reality. I tend to think that Milwaukee had a good idea when they offered vouchers to extremely low-income families. I'm not much for offering them to everyone, just to the people who really need them. That's a small portion of my thoughts on the subject.
churchmarketingsucks.com has a post on mega-churches in the Minneapolis area. One pastor doesn't do marketing. He'd rather be free to say what God calls him to say. I think I'd like this guy.
Here's a photo of Bill Gates at the failed Live demo. Can you see now why it failed (besides the technical problems that created "confusion and delay," in the words of one Sir Topham Hatt)? Perhaps now you really understand why I believe that I really could do better than that.
What did Microsoft accomplish this week?
I've finally got Sven to join Team Mac OS X. He's folding under the name "BillyGLuvsOSX" which totally cracked me up. There is actually a team that is showing up on our "Threats" list. It appears that at our current rates, CustomPC will pass us in a little over 20 years. Hopefully we'll have some more recruits using their computers for medical research on behalf of Team Mac OS X by then. Speaking of which, why aren't YOU folding? It's easy, and doesn't interfere with your computer usage (unless you're playing some highly intense graphics game). It's easy to sign up, and there is software on our Team's site for both Macs and Windows. Just make sure that you type 1971 when it asks for your team number. As far as your user name? Pick whatever you want. Questions? We've got a great forum with friendly people.
Jill was checking out the CCDA website in preparation for the conference in a couple weeks. She found out that they had reserved another group of rooms at the hotel, so she quickly called and canceled our reservations and re-reserved under the CCDA block, so we were able to get a room at the cheaper rate!!! Now we'll actually get to stay at the hotel!!
I decided to try giving up caffeine in an attempt to sleep better at night. I've been caffeine free for two weeks. I'm posting this at 3:30 in the morning. Hmmmm....
Jason Clark is seriously considering a reevaluation of Calvin. He's hoping to get something better out of what Calvin taught than the traditional stereotype of an angry God.
The emerging church has been criticized for being critical. Scot McKnight continues his series of blog posts on the emerging church by looking at what the emerging church supports as opposed to being against.
Michael has posted on why he's not emergent. Don't be drinking anything when you read this, it won't be good for your nose.
Abner doesn't like our sense of entitlement. I'm amazed at how many people I see who believe that someone owes them a house (to own). The concept of taking care of your finances and past debts is appalling to them. My response? Sure, you can get a loan, just plan on being robbed by the lender in the process and ultimately losing that house to foreclosure. Why? People who have a terrible track record with their money aren't going to change just because they buy a house. That's why traditional lenders won't touch them.
If you've been reading for a while then you know that we've been working at passing a lead paint inspection. In January we pulled all of our windows out, took them to the garage, sanded them down and repainted them. It didn't work. This past summer we replaced them. Of course, the City made us put in wood windows in the front of the house. The wood windows didn't pass (all the windows that I got to choose passed, of course). I cased the bases of the failing windows in aluminum. We repainted both of our porches...again. Today we passed. It has been a long time coming, and a major pain, but it will ultimately be worthwhile in the long run. What this really means is that I have to complete our final pay request to the City, get our final inspection/walk through, and wait for a check. Oh, and live here for five years. We love this house, so living here for five years won't be too painful. It's an awesome house!
Here are some quick links I've found interesting:
We finally got the details worked out so we can attend the CCDA conference in Indy in a couple weeks! WooHoo! It took us so long that we weren't able to get the discounted room rate. When we talk in the morning, we'll have to discuss some other alternative and possibly cancel our room reservation. It's more than double what the discounted rate would have been. :-P Ah, well, we get to go, and that's a huge plus!
Saturday night a friend gave me a "preview" copy of George Barna's new book Revolution. I believe the book is now available in stores, but since it was free, I took it. Also got a cd of Barna reading an abridged version of the book as well. I've been listening to the cd on my iPod while I've been working out. I can't wait to dive into the book!!! He nails it in so many ways. Of course, he's also probably going to lose a lot of his traditional support base as well. This book definitely places him in the "emerging" crowd. I've heard it said that there are no intellectuals in Emergent (the US version, anyway). I don't really know how "intellectual" is defined. Scot McKnight, a prof at North Park, has produced a share of "intellectual" material, as well as stuff geared toward the layman. Dallas Willard is one of the most popular authors amongst Emergent, as was NT Wright. Hey, even Tony Jones, the national coordinator for Emergent is a research fellow at Princeton Seminary. From what I understand, you don't get into Princeton by playing dumb. Now Barna is producing a book that is very attractive in that crowd. Does this mean he'll now be an outcast among the traditional evangelicals? I hope not. What I've been hearing thus far needs to be said. There are an awful lot of people who love God and have put their faith in Jesus, but they are not showing up at church on Sunday morning (or Saturday night, or Friday night...). These people haven't lost their faith, in fact, many are actively living and growing in it. They just aren't doing it in the context of a church home. We have remade the Body into something loaded down with rules and expectations that people who come in from the outside just aren't ready to meet. Some stay anyway, and are slowly transformed. Others want to believe, but they just don't see those expectations as being consistent with Scripture. When its all said and done, it comes down to the issue of relationships, and since fewer than one in six Christians are in an accountable relationship with other believers, its tough to believe that someone from the outside would have much of a chance at one either.